3 Things to consider before you get married

We've been asked what are some things to consider when you are deciding whether
to get married or not. Here are a few "musts" to consider before you make that decision--

1. Discover what your goals and values are and ask your partner to do the same. Is there a strong core that will hold the two of you together? Do you want similar things from life?
We instinctively often choose someone who is very different from us so that we have the opportunity to learn and grow. For a successful marriage, it's still important to discover if your core values are similar.

2. We've heard the phrase "Women marry men hoping they'll change; men marry women hoping they will." Don't fall into those traps.

3. Pay attention to how you are feeling with this person right now. Is this how you want to live your life? Do you like the way you feel when you are with this person? Don't ignore warning signals that you may be feeling but not listening too.

These are just a few of the important things you should consider.

Susie and Otto Collins, Relationship Coaches and Authors

Appreciate the people in your life!

Today is Thanksgiving in the United States and along with the usual turkey and stuffing traditions,
we invite you to appreciate the people in your life. Take time to tell your loved ones how they impact your life and what you love and appreciate about them. Be sure to include your kids! Otto and his 15 year old son took some time the other day to say what they appreciated about each other. It was a special time for them and they felt closer to each other. We hope that you have a great holiday and that you take some time to connect in a meaningful way with those around you!

Many Blessings, Susie and Otto

What's This Blog For ?

Hi

Thanks for visiting our blog.

This is the place where we'll post random thoughts and ideas on love and relationships.

Sometimes these will be relationship tips and ideas.

Sometimes our info that we'll post will be info about soulmates, divorce, men, women marriage, jealousy, communication and more. We will ocassionally post something about personal and spiritual growth.
Who knows? We want this to be fun.

In addition, we'll also keep you up to date on the many projects we're working on here.

Many Blessings to you

Thanks again for visiting.

Relationship Coaches

Susie and Otto Collins

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